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Published Dec 31, 2018

#008: The Myths of Masculinity and Addiction with Ben Goresky

Mark Groves and Ben Goresky delve into the intertwined worlds of addiction and masculinity, dismantling myths and exploring emotional healing. Goresky shares his personal recovery story and insights into codependency and societal norms' impact on male identities, highlighting the need for healthier relationship dynamics.
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  • Codependency

    Codependency often manifests when individuals place their emotional well-being in the hands of their partners, creating an unhealthy dynamic. and discuss how this leads to a cycle of giving and expecting love in return, which can result in resentment and blame 1. They emphasize the importance of recognizing and breaking these patterns to foster healthier relationships 2.

    When you are facing challenges with your partner and your partner is your emotional center, then that's way too much pressure to put on your partner. It's unfair, exactly, because you put your emotional well-being in their hands, you put your health in their hands, you put your happiness in their hands, and you should never put your happiness in anyone's hands.

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    Understanding codependency is crucial for personal growth and healthier connections.

       

    Healing

    Healing personal wounds is essential for fostering healthier relationships. highlights that one's own healing journey directly influences their ability to support and connect with others 3. Ben Goresky4.

    You want to change the world, change yourself. You want to revolt within. And that's how it always begins.

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    Addressing these issues can lead to more fulfilling and balanced partnerships.

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