681. Saying No to Say Yes: Healthy Boundaries in Modern Love with Mark Groves + Kylie McBeath

Ancestral Patterns

Kylie McBeath and Mark Groves delve into the impact of ancestral patterns on present relationships. Kylie shares her experience of realizing how her relationship dynamics were shaped by her early childhood environment, particularly her interactions with her mother 1. Mark emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and healing generational pain, noting that it often involves carrying emotional burdens for the family 2.

Essentially, what's been going on for you and your relationship dynamics is you have been recreating the imprints you have with your mother, with all the men in your life.

--- Kylie McBeath

They both highlight the necessity of breaking these patterns to foster healthier relationships.

   

Mother Wounds

Kylie discusses the profound impact of mother wounds on adult relationships and the healing process involved. She explains how she had to remove men from her life temporarily to heal her relationship with her mother and break the cycle of seeking validation from men 3. This journey is also reflected in her and Mark's book, "Liberated Love," which aims to challenge and redefine what is considered normal in relationships 4.

You need to actually create a container where you remove men because you're sourcing so much safety and security from them through this original imprint.

--- Kylie McBeath

Kylie emphasizes that healing these wounds can transform all dynamics in one's life.