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Published Jan 5, 2021

#127: Let It Burn Pt. 1 with Mark Groves and Kylie McBeath

Mark Groves and Kylie McBeath delve into their personal journeys of healing and transformation following the end of their relationship, uncovering how embracing change, setting boundaries, and navigating pain can lead to profound personal freedom and growth.
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  • Liberation

    and discuss the importance of dismantling outdated trauma patterns to achieve liberated love. Kylie emphasizes the need for women to stop seeking validation from men and to remember their own worth and integrity 1. Mark reflects on their relationship's role in highlighting and healing these wounds, allowing them to rebuild trust and grow together 1. Kylie also shares her efforts to help women re-anchor themselves and unhook from codependent patterns through her twelve-week course 2.

    Stop sourcing safety, security, validation, worth, anything from the world around you. It is time for us to remember who we are, why we're here, and really step into such a deeper integrity.

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    Mark and Kylie acknowledge the challenges and rewards of this journey, highlighting the importance of self-belonging and internal foundation for meaningful relationships 2.

       

    Freedom

    Kylie shares her journey of finding freedom and liberation after her divorce, emphasizing the importance of financial independence and self-trust before entering a new relationship 3. She reflects on how dependency on her ex-husband mirrored generational patterns and hindered her personal growth. Mark discusses the transformative power of relational endings, describing their breakup as an alchemical process that allowed for personal and mutual growth 4.

    I made a commitment to myself before my next relationship that I would have a foundation in place before entering.

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    Their closing ceremony marked the end of their romantic relationship with respect and love, serving as a gateway to new beginnings and deeper self-awareness 4.

       

    Validation

    Kylie recounts her decision to detox from external validation by removing men from her life for a period, which helped her create her own validation and self-worth 5. She explains how this process allowed her to confront and grieve the patterns that kept her and the women in her family dependent on external sources for safety and security. Mark adds that releasing external dependencies is crucial for self-sourcing safety, security, and identity 6.

    I'm grieving the pattern that has kept the women in my family unconsciously enslaved to a system that required them to give up part of themselves.

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    This journey of self-sourcing is essential for breaking free from societal expectations and living authentically 6.

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