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Published Aug 9, 2019

#041: Why Relationships Are (Really) Hard - Solo Episode

Mark Groves delves into the intricacies of relationships, sharing his personal journey of self-discovery and transformation, while highlighting the importance of communication, self-awareness, and challenging societal norms for personal growth.
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  • Relationship Messages

    Mark Groves discusses the implicit and explicit messages we receive about relationships and how they shape our behaviors. Explicit messages are clear directives like "never get divorced," while implicit messages are subtler, such as societal reactions to divorce. These messages influence how we handle conflict and our overall relationship dynamics 1.

       

    Personal Growth

    Personal relationships serve as a magnifying glass for our shortcomings and growth areas. Mark emphasizes the importance of showing up as the best version of oneself and not subcontracting happiness or healing to others. He also highlights the significance of maintaining a balance between personal individuality and the connection with a partner 2 3.

       

    Commitment Norms

    Mark questions societal norms about commitment, especially the shame associated with ending relationships. He argues that it's okay for relationships to end and that doing so can be a part of personal growth. This perspective helps to alleviate the shame and judgment often tied to relationship failures 4.

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