Published Sep 8, 2020

#107: Guys We F****d with Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson

Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson, stand-up comedians and hosts of "Guys We F****d," delve into the complexities of female sexuality, exploring transformative relationships, embracing discomfort and personal growth, while challenging societal taboos and emphasizing accountability and power dynamics.
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  • Assumptions

    Krystyna Hutchinson and Corinne Fisher challenge societal and personal assumptions by emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and personal accountability. Krystyna shares her experience of people projecting their insecurities onto her, highlighting the need to trust one's own journey and emotions 1. She believes that self-actualization and growth are painful but necessary processes, and that sometimes becoming a worse person is part of becoming a better one 2. Corinne adds that critiques of others often reflect our own insecurities, urging listeners to focus on personal growth rather than external validation 1.

    I think for me, I had to become a worse person to then become a better person than I originally was.

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    Letting go of toxic relationships is also crucial for personal growth, as Krystyna discusses the importance of cutting off access to toxic individuals to protect one's well-being 3.

       

    Privilege

    The conversation shifts to the dynamics of privilege and power, where and the guests explore how privilege often goes unrecognized by those who benefit from it. Mark uses a Monopoly analogy to illustrate how people born into privilege often overlook the advantages they have, such as access to education and resources 4. Corinne Fisher points out that power can lead to a lack of accountability, as seen in the Stanford prison experiment, where individuals quickly became abusive when given authority 5.

    If you feel powerful that's derived from a place of love, then when you have power of some sort, you'll likely not use it in a way that's trying to get a sense of self.

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    Krystyna adds that understanding one's own power and privilege can prevent the misuse of power and promote more equitable societal structures 4.

       

    Cancel Culture

    Cancel culture is examined as a reflection of personal and societal growth, with Krystyna noting the irony of a self-help generation being easily offended. She suggests that critiques of others often mirror unresolved issues within ourselves 6. Mark Groves and Corinne discuss how cancel culture can sometimes overlook the potential for personal growth and redemption, emphasizing the importance of understanding intentions behind actions 7.

    Our critiques of others are such a direct reflection of how we feel about ourselves.

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    The discussion also touches on the accountability of public figures, with Corinne highlighting the disparity in how comedians are held accountable compared to politicians, suggesting that comedians' accessibility makes them easier targets 8.

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