#397: How to Know When It’s Time to Leave a Job or a Relationship

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Trust & Commitment
Trust and commitment are foundational to healthy relationships. emphasizes the importance of being fully aligned with one's desires and values to build trust. He notes that when individuals are not fully committed, it creates a dynamic where one partner is always trying to change or lead the other, which can be exhausting and hierarchical 1.
If I'm not standing in them, rock solid, I'm saying, here's what I want to create with my life. This is the kind of relationship I want, but I'm not choosing that. I'm not aligned.
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Mark suggests that true alignment and integrity in relationships are attractive and necessary for trust to flourish 1.
Stop Chasing
Maintaining self-respect involves avoiding the chase for love from those who are not fully committed. Mark advises against holding onto hope for relationships with partners who are not fully aligned or ready to choose you at the same level 2. He stresses the importance of staying connected to reality and making adult decisions in relationships.
If you are someone who chases people, it is time to say I'm chasing myself. I'm done leaving my center.
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By ending the chase and focusing on self-alignment, individuals can create space for healthier, more fulfilling relationships 2.
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