Understanding Emotional Reactions
Violet highlights the importance of recognizing that when a partner reacts with anger or cruelty, it often stems from their own pain and unresolved issues. Instead of taking hurtful words personally, it's crucial to understand that these outbursts may reflect their inner struggles. By viewing their behavior through the lens of a child's need for attention, one can foster compassion while encouraging personal growth and healing.In this clip
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#362: Heal Your Wounds & Reclaim Your Life Through Shadow Work w/ Violet Benson
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I realized that my dad was just nice to me while trying to get something from me. But as soon as he noticed that I wasn't going to open the door or that his emotional manipulation didn't work, he started calling me the worst things he could think of and became extremely aggressive. I think this was his true face. Was it just him being hurt, or was it something else? I don't think so.
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