Challenging Love Archetypes
Mark and Violet discuss the common archetype of the "bad boy" and how it affects our perceptions of love and relationships. They emphasize the importance of taking control of our own pace in dating and friendships, rather than waiting to be chosen. Violet reflects on the tendency to revert back to old friendships and the question of whether people can truly change.In this clip
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#284: Breaking Free from Toxic Friendships with Violet Benson
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