Love Languages, Attachment Styles
John and Vanessa discuss the challenges they faced in the beginning of their relationship due to their different love languages and attachment styles. They explore feelings of undesirability, ambivalence, and the anxious-avoidant dance that still affects them after five years together. They also touch on the impact of social media on mental health and the complexities of attachment and codependency.In this clip
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#231: How to Relationship Better with John Kim & Vanessa Bennett
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