The Cycle of Self-Abandonment
Terri and Mark discuss the cycle of self-abandonment and how it leads to loneliness and bitterness. They explore the societal expectations placed on women to be self-sacrificing and the reward system that reinforces this behavior. They also delve into the pursuit pattern in relationships and the belief that there is something inherently wrong with oneself.In this clip
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The Mark Groves Podcast
#067: Codependency, The Disease To Please with Terri Cole
Related Questions
I feel that men have to work hard to gain social status and financial stability to attract women, while women are pursued regardless of their qualities. It seems like there are often many men interested in one woman, giving her the power to choose. I'm frustrated by the idea that men have to chase after women and navigate complex social games to gain their interest. Can you provide insights or advice on this perspective?
I have a question about the episode #067: Codependency, The Disease To Please with Terri Cole and the clip High Achieving Females. Why do men have to work hard to gain social status and financial stability to attract women, while women are pursued regardless of their qualities? It seems like there are often many men interested in one woman, giving her the power to choose. I'm frustrated by the idea that men have to chase after women and navigate complex social games to gain their interest. I love women and don't want to have a negative mindset, but sometimes I can't help but feel this way.
How can I shift my perspective on the idea that men have to work hard to gain social status and financial stability to attract women, while women are pursued regardless of their qualities, as discussed in the episode #067: Codependency, The Disease To Please with Terri Cole and the clip High Achieving Females?