Navigating Relationship Triggers
Terry and Mark discuss the importance of recognizing triggers in relationships and offer insights on how to navigate them with grace and understanding.In this clip
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The Mark Groves Podcast
#214: Build a More Loving Relationship with Terry Real
Related Questions
My wife and I listened to your podcast with Terry Real. We enjoyed it and had a few "I told you so" moments. However, we had a major issue with what was said when there was an argument. The husband, the man in this case, was told to say, "You're upset. I'm sorry. What can I do for you?" My wife had two issues with this approach. First, it felt condescending. Second, what happens if this is said but lacks follow-through, and the issue happens again? Is it a free pass? By the way, I thought it was spot on, but I see her point.
Is the approach you've described a hallmark of a healthy relationship?
Can you explain the concept that when you get in a fight with your spouse, you should ask what the goal is and that it's about connection, as mentioned by Jordan Peterson in your episode with him, in the context of the episode The Essence of Terrible Parenting | Stephanie Davies-Arai | EP 316 and the clip Parenting and Conflict?