#184: Shedding Societal Pressure with Amanda Goetz

Multiple Identities

Amanda Goetz shares her journey of embracing multiple identities, challenging societal norms that often confine individuals to singular roles. She emphasizes the importance of rituals in transitioning between these identities, such as moving from 'mom mode' to 'date mode' through personal routines that honor each aspect of her life 1. Amanda discusses the societal pressures that discourage women from expressing their full selves, particularly in religious communities where repression can lead to mental health issues 2.

I am a CEO, I'm a VC backed founder, whatever you want to say, that's my business side. Then I have a maternal side to me, I love being a mom. And just because I am aggressive in a business sense does not mean that that is a flow through to everything. I am a very soft mom and very loving.

--- Amanda Goetz

Amanda's insights highlight the need for self-acceptance and the courage to defy societal expectations.

   

New Roles

Navigating new roles in life, Amanda Goetz reflects on her transformation from a traditional caretaker to a powerful business leader. She describes how moving to New York City opened her eyes to endless possibilities and helped her shed the people-pleasing persona she once held 3. Amanda's divorce journey during the pandemic further catalyzed her personal growth, leading her to explore cannabis as a means of self-care and stress management 4.

For me, it just felt like there were endless possibilities of who I could become, and I wanted to try them all on to see which shoe fit in New York City.

--- Amanda Goetz

Her story underscores the importance of redefining oneself and embracing change.